This post is dedicated to those who look, even if they don’t find anything. To those who fight, even if they don’t win. To those who move forward, even if they get lost. To all of you out there that live, even if one day you die. 

In life we can’t take things for granted. We have to find the best version of ourselves, we have to fight for what we want,  we have to move forward toward our dreams. We have to live, and we have to die. In order to do so, I always have four important rules on my mind every day.

1. ALWAYS be impeccable with your words
Your words are valuable, they make an important part of yourself. Words are your thoughts transforming into actions. Do not use them to speak against yourself or to gossip about others, instead use them to generate good energy and to keep yourself away from anything that is not positive for your life.

2. NEVER take anything personally
Taking things personally will only get you to break rule #1. It hurts your heart and harms your soul. Whatever other people say is only a reflection of their own lives, and that should NEVER affect you. Becoming immune to what other people say is not easy, but is the only way to eliminate needless suffering from your life.

3. ALWAYS do your best
You have to always do your best in order to find the best version of yourself every day. For this, you have to eliminate laziness, negative thoughts, and excuses from your life. Every day of your life, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

4. NEVER make assumptions
This is the most important rule of my life. Assumptions in the past have led me to doubt myself and doubt the people I love. Assumptions hurt and making assumptions is easy. Instead we have to find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communication is the clue, and it helps to avoid misunderstandings and unecessary drama.

And just remember,

Si quieres un cambio verdadero, pues camina distinto.

-MCC